Sejarah Kitab Kamasutra

Kama Sutra diperkirakan telah ada di India pada abad antara 100 – 400 sesudah masehi. Kama Sutra merupakan bagian dari pada ajaran hidup Vatsyayana yang terdiri dari dharma, artha dan kama. Dharma berkaitan dengan agama, artha berkaitan dengan kemakmuran dan kama berkaitan dengan cinta dan kenikmatan seksual. Konsep dasar dari kama adalah pencapain kenikmatan seksual yang melibatkan lima indera: pendengaran, perasaan, penglihatan, rasa (taste) dan penciuman yang disatukan oleh pikiran dan jiwa.

Keberadaan Kama Sutra pertama kali memang dibuat untuk kaum pria mengingat pada saat itu wanita mendapatkan status sosial dibawah kaum pria. Tapi ini bukan berarti bahwa kaum wanita sama sekali diabaikan dalam naskah Kama Sutra. Petunjuk yang berkaitan dengan wanita dicantumkan secara tersirat, misalnya: aktifitas pria meliputi mencium, menekan, mendorong dan menggores (mencakar halus), dan jika wanita tidak dapat menikmati tindakan tsb maka Vatsyayana menganjurkan agar sang pria menggosok/mengelus YONI (vagina) dengan tangan pria tsb.

Kama Sutra merupakan teknik bercinta dari bangsa timur. Selain teknik bercinta Kama Sutra, bangsa timur juga memiliki teknik bercinta lainnya seperti Ananga Ranga, The Perfumed Garden dan The Tao.

Zona Sensitif
Kama Sutra mengajarkan bahwa otak adalah bagian yang paling penting dalam kenikmatan seksual. Ini dapat dimengerti, sebab tanpa adanya imajinasi atau fantasi seksual maka aktifitas seks hanya akan merupakan rutinitas dan kebosanan.

Zona sensitif sangat penting untuk menjadikan imajinasi seksual menjadi kenyataan. Seseorang yang sedang bermesraan, secara fantasi atau imajinasi ingin merasakan sentuhan dari si Dia. Sentuhan yang dilakukan di tempat yang tepat dapat memberikan kenikmatan seksual. Kama Sutra mencatat beberapa tempat yang diyakini dapat menimbulkan gejolak seksual yang luar biasa bagi manusia, yakni: ciuman atau stimulasi lainnya di daerah bibir, mulut, kening, pipi, leher, dada/payudara

Kulit Sensitif
Kulit adalah organ terbesar dari tubuh manusia dan merupakan tempat berakhirnya syaraf-syaraf yang sangat peka terhadap rangsangan berupa sentuhan, perubahan suhu dan tekanan.

Payudara
Payudara wanita memainkan peranan penting dalam daya tarik seksual. Selain merupakan daya tarik seksual bagi lawan jenis, payudara merupakan zona rangsangan yang sangat sensitif.

Pantat
Pantat juga merupakan salah satu daya tarik seksual seperti halnya dengan payudara. Pesona keindahan bentuk pantat yang padat dan kenyal dapat ditonjolkan dengan memakai celana/pakaian ketat. Seperti halnya dengan payudara, selain merupakan daya tarik seksual, pantatpun juga merupakan tempat yang peka terhadap rangsangan seksual dalam bentuk remasan, gosokan, jilatan, gigitan bahkan sabetan ringan.

Dubur/Anal Yang Sensitif
Rangsangan di anal dapat memberikan kenikmatan seksual yang menakjubkan. Hal ini dapat dilakukan dengan memberikan stimulasi langsung di anal memakai jari dengan cara mengusap dan menggelitik.

Pesona Mulut/Oral
Kama Sutra mencatat bahwa mulut sangat berperan dalam aktifitas seksual seperti untuk mencium, menggigit, dan oral sex. Dalam hal mencium B2B (Bibir-to-Bibir), Kama Sutra mengajarkan bahwa ada dua tipe ciuman: Ciuman Bibir Atas dan Ciuman Mengulum. Vatsyayana menggambarkan ciuman bibir atas sebagai “ciuman di bibir atas wanita dibarengi dengan ciuman balik dibibir bawah pria”.

Sedangkan ciuman mengulum dapat dilakukan dengan cara mengulum dan menghisap halus kedua bibir atas dan bawah pasangan anda, sehingga kedua lapis bibir tsb berada dimulut anda. Kedua ciuman tsb dapat divariasi dengan saling mengaitkan atau menjilatkan lidah antara pria dan wanita.
Pada puncaknya, mulut dapat digunakan untuk memberikan kenikmatan yang sangat dahsyat bagi pasangan anda dengan cara oral sex. Dunia barat memisahkan oral sex menjadi dua kosakata: cunnilingus dan fellatio.
Cunnilingus adalah tindakan seorang pria untuk menghisap ataupun menjilat vagina wanita, dan fellatio adalah ciuman dan hisapah yang dilakukan oleh wanita pada kemaluan pria (penis)

Cunnilingus
Ada tiga kunci yang sangat penting dalam melakukan oral sex pada wanita. Ketiga kunci tsb adalah: perineum, bibir vagina dan clitoris. Pada saat wanita sudah siap menerima oral sex. Wanita akan membuka paha lebar lebar guna memberikan tempat bagi pria untuk mendekatkan mulut pria ke vagina. Langkah awal yang sangat penting adalah membangkitkan getaran getaran di vagina dengan mencium dan menjilat kulit di sekitar vagina terutama di perineum. Perineum adalah kulit yang terletak antara vagina dan dubur (lihat gambar perineum). Bibir vagina yang bergelambir juga merupakan kunci dari kenikmatan oral sex. Pria dapat melakukan jilatan ataupun tarikan menggunakan mulut dengan cara menyedot/menghisap bibir vagina. Tindakan ini akan memanaskan gelora rangsangan wanita yang sudah membukakan paha buat pria guna menikmati kehangatan cinta. Jilatan halus yang dilakukan di clitoris dapat membawa kenikmatan seksual bagi seorang wanita bahkan sangat memungkinkan bagi si wanita untuk mencapai puncak kenikmatan seksual atau orgasme.

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Petua Isteri Gemar Jima’

There is an old Chinese saying:”Man is fire, woman is water. The man fire brings the woman water to boiling.”

These days most women want orgasms. That wasn’t always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply did not have climaxes – and a lot of them were not bothered about it.

The big difference between male and female orgasm is this: after the first climax, many women can ‘come’ again, often within a minute or two.

As always, the most important key to creating a better sex life is honest communication between you and your lover.

After that you have got to realize – it’s not a mechanical thing (unlike in men).

The top factors that have to be there for a real female orgasm to occur :

Comfortable surroundings
A partner she really likes
Kissing and cuddling for at least 10-20 minutes
A Partner who know how to rub the clitoris right

Please bear in mind that – contrary to what many men think – sexual intercourse by itself is not likely to produce an orgasm. This is because intercourse alone is not very good at stimulating the her clitoris. Nearly all females need additional stimulation of the clitoris by fingers or mouth.

Another important thing to remember when looking into female orgasm techniques is communication about sex.

Ask her what she likes and if she isn’t too shy ask her to show you.

Women know exactly what they want and nobody can give you better orgasm tips than the person themselves.

Don’t be afraid to ask her what she wants and use your mouth and your tongue wherever possible too.

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Merangsang Titik Lazat Cita Dan Nafsu Luar

G-spot is a bundle of nerves inside a woman’s vaginal canal which when stimulated with pressure; it will give a woman a very pleasurable orgasm. Women can experience orgasms just from g-spot stimulation alone. Therefore, it is probably a good thing for you to discover where your partner’s g-spot is, so that you are able to stimulate it.

Trust me, g-spot stimulation and cunnilingus go hand in hand. The orgasmic feeling of g-spot stimulation is very different from the orgasmic feeling of cunnilingus stimulation. The good thing is that it is possible for her to experience both types of orgasms at the same time! Having both orgasms at once is definitely an amazing and mind-blowing experience for her.

Before you can move to stimulate her g-spot, you need to know where it is located. The g-spot is simply easy to find. Insert your index finger into a vaginal canal with your palm facing up. Then use your finger to make a “come here” motion and touch the front wall of her vaginal. That should pretty much do it.

However, sometime the g-spot may be located further towards the front as well. Therefore, it will be good that if you ask your girl to guide you along the process. Once you have hit the right spot, you need to apply pressure onto it.

G-spot reacts to pressure, not touches. You will also need to apply consistent pressure to it if you want her to feel any sensation from your effort. By combining both g-spot and cunnilingus stimulations, you are now better equipped to send your honey to orgasm heaven.

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Aksi Lidah Untuk Inzal Berulang

Cunnilingus is the single best form to make a woman achieves earth-shattering orgasms. Research has shown that more than 81% of women regularly achieve orgasms from cunnilingus when compared to only 25% of them from traditional intercourse.

This is because a woman’s clitoris consists of more than 8,000 nerve endings, which make it extremely sensitive to stimulation, especially your tongue. However, it may also cause her pain if you are not careful about it. Therefore, it is essential for you to warm her up sufficiently and go slow on your strokes unless she requests otherwise.

Now let us touch on 4 cunnilingus techniques to give your lover multiple orgasms:

1. ABC. This technique may sound funny for you, but it is an extremely powerful cunnilingus technique that you must know about. To start off this technique, position your tongue either on the left or right hand side of her clitoris, and start “writing” the letters on it. Do it slowly so as to give her time to guess what you are trying to write. You can make this technique more interesting by drawing numbers too!

2. Sweeping. This is a fairly easy move. Start off by positioning your tongue either on the left or right hand side of her clitoris. Then move it from left to right as if you are sweeping the floor.

3. Circles. This technique will feel excellent when your partner is fairly aroused. Same thing, position your tongue either on the left or right hand side of her clitoris. Then move your tongue either in a clockwise or anti-clockwise direction. To add in more spice, you can change the shape of your tongue to make it dart-like or snake-like. Each shape brings a different sensation and the good thing is that you are typically using the same technique.

4. Suction. One very important thing to note for this cunnilingus technique is to make sure that your partner is fully aroused before your execute this move. Suction too early in the game may turn her off immediately by putting too much pressure on her sensitive clitoris too soon. Place her clitoris into your mouth and suck it in gently, as if you are drinking from a straw. Again, remember not to suck too hard.

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Posisi Aksi Lidah Terbaik

By varying the positions in which you perform cunnilingus on your partner, you will be able to tantalize her and bring her to a new level of orgasmic experience that she ever thought imaginable.

When it comes to cunnilingus, it has a basic concept, which is to use your tongue to lick a woman’s vulva. After sometime, things do get boring in the bedroom. By changing the way you perform cunnilingus, cunnilingus will stay interesting for the benefits for the both of you.

Let us discuss 4 cunnilingus positions that you can use to spice things up:

1. Doggy position. With this position, your partner will go down on all fours, with her hips slightly tilted towards the ceiling. You will then position your face within sucking and licking distance from her vulva. Do talk to your partner and make sure that she is comfortable with this position as it has always been criticized as a degrading position for the women. However, if you and your partner want to experience something randy, this cunnilingus position may feel a little kinkier than the other cunnilingus positions.

2. 69 positions. This position allows mutual stimulation for the benefits of both of you. If you get stiff neck easily, this position will be ideal for you. With this position, you will invert your body so that your legs are on the same end of the bed as her head and your head is on the same end of the bed as her legs. The only drawback for this position is that your lover may not be able to fully enjoy the cunnilingus session as she is also performing fellatio on you.

3. Legs Up position. This position is the most popularly used cunnilingus position of all time. In this position, she will lie down on her back and you will place your head squarely between her legs. The reason why this position is so popular is because it allows uninhibited access to her vulva, which gives you excellent opportunity to perform!

4. Legs on Bed position. This position is very similar to the Legs Up position, except that her legs are not up but on the bed. This position allows the woman to have more control during cunnilingus. However, it may cause discomfort for your neck if you are someone who get stiff neck easily. To try out this position, she will adopt the same position as the Legs Up position and you will place your mouth squarely between her legs and start licking.

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Rangsang Nafsu Luar Dengan Aksi Lidah

In cunnilingus, other than using your tongue to stimulate a woman’s clitoris, there are actually 3 techniques that may give your cunnilingus bag a few new tricks. Sometime, there need to be an essence of change so as to make cunnilingus stays interesting. Let me share with you 3 additional techniques now:

1. Fingering. Fingering is by far the most popular accompaniment to cunnilingus. With your fingers, there are so many ways that you stimulate your partner. But before you insert your fingers into her, make sure that she is wet enough so as to minimize pain. Whatever techniques that you use, you should also make sure that you do it slowly and gently unless she asks you to do otherwise. Take note that you should try not to use your fingers to stimulate her clitoris. This is not a rule but a suggestion. As the clitoris is extremely sensitive, a warm, soft and wet tongue feels much better than a finger.

2. Using toys. For really advanced cunnilingus masters, using toys during cunnilingus can definitely spice it up a little. Make sure that your partner is comfortable with toys first. Of course, if she is not comfortable in using toys, you should leave it at that to avoid making her feeling uncomfortable. When your partner feels uncomfortable, she will not be able to enjoy the cunnilingus session and all your efforts will go down to the drain. There are basically 2 types of toys that you can use, one that stays outside the vaginal canal, and one that goes into it. You can get a variety of sex toys from your local sex toys shop, or you can even search online and have them delivered to your home to stay discreet.

3. G-spot stimulation. G-spot is a small bundle of nerves about two inches inside a woman’s vaginal canal. A woman can experience an orgasm from g-spot stimulation alone. However, the feeling of g-spot orgasm is different from the feeling of clitoral orgasm, and it is possible for your lover to experience both experiences at once! Having both experiences at once will be amazing and earth-shattering for a woman. To stimulate the g-spot, you must know how to find it. Insert your index finger with your palm facing up into her. Make a “come here” motion and that should pretty much do it. Apply consistent pressure onto it as g-spot reacts to pressure not touches.

With these 3 additional cunnilingus techniques, you are now better equipped to achieve cunnilingus success.

Do you know that more than 81% of women regularly achieve orgasms from cunnilingus, when compared to only 25% of them from traditional intercourse?

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